Okay- I am going to say it... YEP- I am putting it right out there- I HATE this saying so much! Why? Because it feels like saying please- go ahead and pretend to be something you aren't- or lie to peoples faces eventually you will believe it too or make it and then it wont be a lie anymore. UGH- really? Is this sound advice? NO! Control your mindset! Wear the most important fashion you can EVERYDAY- The cloak of confidence! Really- seriously let's face reality and create a positive mind space where we admit who and what we are at this precise time and recognize we have room to grow and develop and that we are in fact on a journey! It's why we don't start at the finish line. There is plenty of learning along the way! Enjoy the journey and the growing process. Don't be fake or say things that just "look" like you are successful- DO things that create success. Be quite up front that if you are working towards a promotion or a rank or advancement of some kind- put it right out there for everyone to see and hear. You can't FAKE confidence you FEEL it. You also cant have it unless you claim it as yours. Sometimes people will try to dig at you to make you think you don't deserve to be confident or successful or that you are less than what you have already achieved. That is simply a reflection of their own inadequacies and weaknesses. Don't FAKE it- you will come off FAKE! Stand in your confidence- learn EVERYTHING you can to be strong, educated in your field, a leader and believe in yourself and your talents and gifts- BELIEVE you will achieve your desired goals and you wont have to fake it at all because before you know it you will have it. #BELIEVEYOUCAN #BEREAL
Just a gal who believes with all her heart she has the power to help others live a life they deserve!