Yes. I know. You hear it.. but do you REALLY hear it? Are you creating your success or siting around hoping it will happen? What is your true intention? I don't care whether you want to be PTO president or the CEO of your own company- it takes the EXACT same thing. ACTION! What are you doing that will get you closer to your goals? What action steps are you taking to accomplish your goal? Are you inspiring other to look at what you are doing or to look away? Don't get me wrong- I do not think you should look for peoples approval of your actions, but you DO need action to succeed. Go your own speed, run your own race, be your own boss, listen to people ONLY who are exactly where you want to go- NOT to those who are failing or who have failed at what you are trying to accomplish. If you want to be president of the USA- you should NOT go ask three people who failed! Go ask three people or their campaign managers that WON- what they did RIGHT! Really people- stop spending time with people who are experts are not going to ever accomplish what you are after. Success leaves clues... follow the trail! Align yourself with people who are hitting home runs if you want to be successful in baseball- don't go spend hours with the baseball card collector. Follow the person walking the walk not just talking the talk! Go hit your own dang home run would ya! You can you know....
Hmm do you? Do you have every excuse there is for why you are broke, fat, tired, not sleeping, unhappy, single... or whatever? Who is it that is in charge of YOU? Are you the decision maker in your life? Are you just rolling through life being complacent, comfortable...BORING? Like attracts like my friends- Broke friends, you are broke... friends who eat terrible...you will too. If you want more from your life- DO more, BE more GIVE more- and you'll GET more! Life really is a bit like a boomerang- whatever you send out comes back to you BIGGER! Its why I recommend going to sleep with the last conscious thoughts in your mind of where you are headed, positive things you will accomplish and claiming your own abundance via I AM statements. Your brain will work on accomplishing those things you last think on while you get restorative sleep. You ever heard the phrase-put your foot down? I am going to openly suggest you put your foot down and claim your abundance you were destined for and be open to every avenue for success even if you don't think its the obvious one or the one you think is right at first! Opportunities are never lost- someone takes the ones you miss... (drops mic)
Okay- I am going to say it... YEP- I am putting it right out there- I HATE this saying so much! Why? Because it feels like saying please- go ahead and pretend to be something you aren't- or lie to peoples faces eventually you will believe it too or make it and then it wont be a lie anymore. UGH- really? Is this sound advice? NO! Control your mindset! Wear the most important fashion you can EVERYDAY- The cloak of confidence! Really- seriously let's face reality and create a positive mind space where we admit who and what we are at this precise time and recognize we have room to grow and develop and that we are in fact on a journey! It's why we don't start at the finish line. There is plenty of learning along the way! Enjoy the journey and the growing process. Don't be fake or say things that just "look" like you are successful- DO things that create success. Be quite up front that if you are working towards a promotion or a rank or advancement of some kind- put it right out there for everyone to see and hear. You can't FAKE confidence you FEEL it. You also cant have it unless you claim it as yours. Sometimes people will try to dig at you to make you think you don't deserve to be confident or successful or that you are less than what you have already achieved. That is simply a reflection of their own inadequacies and weaknesses. Don't FAKE it- you will come off FAKE! Stand in your confidence- learn EVERYTHING you can to be strong, educated in your field, a leader and believe in yourself and your talents and gifts- BELIEVE you will achieve your desired goals and you wont have to fake it at all because before you know it you will have it. #BELIEVEYOUCAN #BEREAL