You know that feeling you have when you see that a celebrity or actor who you enjoyed watching on television as a kid has passed away? Even though you don’t know them personally, you still feel a sense of loss. Today, I invite you to take a few minutes to sit back and make a list of people who need to know you care about them. One of those people for me is my dad. He is 86 years young and one of the kindest, most loving, calm, and patient men I have ever known. He has had many health challenges along the way, and has truly been a champion through all of them. He hasn’t loved being the poster child for ailments, but he hasn’t spent too much time feeling sorry for himself either. He has been cherishing the gift he has been given because he KNOWS life isn’t a guarantee. When it’s our time to go- it just is. I encourage you all to live life fully, engaging every day with positive people. The way most people roll through life is like a tumbleweed, reacting to whatever comes their way, and bumping along and into things instead of creating the life they deserve. Create your best life by staying connected to those who bring out the best in you. Distance yourself from the people who pull you down or don’t leave you filled with joy. Spend part of your day in gratitude for the people God has chosen to place in your life. Be thankful for them and share that gratitude directly with them. Today I say thank you to my Dad, Paul, for being that bright light in which to follow. He has always been a wonderful role model! May you all be blessed with such fabulous people to follow and keep close to you. Use your power of discernment to make sure those people who are close to you need to have a role in your life. Stay connected closely with people who fill your joy tank, the ones who affirm for you that life IS a gift, not a guarantee.
These are my older blog posts, which originally appeared in my Exposure Magazine Column, "Healthy Living."